Guys need all the help they can get!

| September 2008 Posted in Relationships |

0 Comments Tags: dating, personal relationships

get away It’s true, who are we trying to fool? Guys, I have learned that if someone is willing to give advice (not that all advice is good) listen, decide for yourself if it is good and if it is, why not give it some practice?

To make a lasting positive first impression, all you need us a relaxed confidence when you approach and the ability to sustain genuine interest in what she has to say…

1. Confidence is Key

On your approach make and maintain eye contact, smile and say hi. If she smiles and says hi back, she is giving you permission to talk to her.

2. Be Yourself (don’t be a player)

Women dig a guy who’s comfortable in his own skin, and isn’t afraid to approach a woman he’s interested in.

3. Pay Attention/ Listen

…when she shares information with you, let your responses reflect that you heard what she has to say and are genuinely interested in continuing the conversation. Whenever possible, interject light and playful flirtation.

4. Don’t Try Too Hard

* Give her plenty of physical space so she doesn’t feel crowded
* Listen intently without staring at her (look around every so often)
* Be playful and fun (and, when appropriate, laugh)
* Don’t talk too much (let her participate in the conversation)
* Cut the conversation short, leaving her wanting more (don’t worry—you can still ask for her digits before you walk away)